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Boston Guy.. Open Letter ..ISO
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| Boston100 |
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| Relationship Type: |
Dating |
| Any Children: |
No |
| Future Children: |
No |
| Profile Region: |
7 |
| Live in: |
boston, MA, |
| Member Gender: |
Male |
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| Member ID: |
31265 |
| Age: |
54
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| Occupation: |
white collar |
| Ethnicity: |
White |
| Religion: |
Christian |
| Height: |
5' 6" |
| Weight: |
145 |
| Eyes: |
Blue |
| Hair: |
Blond |
| Marital Status: |
Single |
| Education Level: |
College |
| Smoke: |
No |
| Drink: |
Yes, socially |
| Recent Activity: |
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| Seeking: |
Male |
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| Over the years I have tried all the conventional and some no so conventional methods to find the "Ideal" mate. For the past six years the mutual "click" never seems to happen. I have met a couple "good" friends along the way, and that I will always be grateful for. I have inquired of myself: Am I too particular? Am I afraid of "commitment"? Is there something wrong with me? Etc…. Oddly enough self examination did
render some findings, I do not believe from the core of my existence that my expectations are too high. Friends will rightfully admit that I certainly do not go for "1" type of man. Granted I like someone who is masculine, a non smoker and is in somewhat decent shape. But what is ever most important is a man's inner goodness and sensitivity, someone that can hung me when I had a bad day and who doesn't mind letting his guard down as well, a guy
who can be a bit mischievous in bed, yet enjoys cuddling and just being close to his partner. A guy who is respectful, in other words is not cruising the minute they are alone in a crowd, someone who wants to be with me. Admitting that physical attributes do matter… to an extent I like guys that take care of themselves and care about their appearance that can mean a great suit or jeans and boots. Aside from that age or occupation are not or
primary concern. Looking inward I guess I was not as ready as I thought I was over the years, my timing always seems to be off, I was in my 30's then and now that I'm 44 it appears to be a death sentence in the gay community. I am not afraid of commitment. I look forward to an intimate relationship and accept that it takes work, patience and time. I am very affectionate, like the beach, movies and just "regular" kinda stuff. I am emotionally and
financially secure. I'm cute in decent shape 5'6" 145# blnd/bl. A bit opinionated but reasonable. Well I hope there is 1 guy out there that can relate to what I am making a feeble attempt on communicating.
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