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Male
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Seeking Athena-Aphrodite
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| Earthfather |
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| Relationship Type: |
Dating |
| Any Children: |
Yes, they live with me |
| Future Children: |
No |
| Profile Region: |
57 |
| Live in: |
Arlington, VA, |
| Member Gender: |
Male |
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| Member ID: |
36868 |
| Age: |
60
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| Occupation: |
Computer Consultant |
| Ethnicity: |
White |
| Religion: |
Other |
| Height: |
5' 8" |
| Weight: |
145 |
| Eyes: |
Brown |
| Hair: |
Brunette |
| Marital Status: |
Divorced |
| Education Level: |
Masters |
| Smoke: |
No |
| Drink: |
No |
| Recent Activity: |
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| Seeking: |
Female |
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| I am seeking a woman who is proud of her intelligence, whose independent spirit and ability to use her mind and heart allow her to explore her intellectual, emotional and sensual frontiers without fear, who would rather be challenged than comfortable.
For this woman, personal growth and joy are more important than conventionality. She has discovered that she wants more intensity, integrity, physical joy and emotional depth than most men can provide. She thinks deeply about all aspects of life and love, choosing her own terms and her own path.
What I can offer is deep listening, metaphorical lyricism, music, skilled touch, poetry, imagination, an irreverent sense of humor, and a powerful libido directed at my partner's pleasure. I can match the creativity, depth, and scope of her interest in literature, science, psychology, eclectic spirituality, relationship dynamics, and sensual pleasure. I am tender yet radically honest, very stable emotionally (no outbursts of anger, no depressions, no destructive impulses), intense, rational, a former social activist, unconventional, and deeply passionate. I like bike riding, long walks in the woods, word play, and playing with kids; I love folk-singing, long intimate talks, giving and receiving massages, reciprocal affirmation, and new challenges.
The most satisfying relationships that I have had in my life were those that had powerful feelings of love, respect and admiration, but didn't necessarily try to become "one and only's". The relationships were supportive, affirming, but never limiting, and when life circumstances changed, the relationship changed with it. These friends, even if no longer sexual, remain my mainstays, my tribe, my heart family.
Most adults today have complex lives; while I long for that perfect partner to be lifemate and soulmate, I realize that this is more fantasy than real. I have work responsibilities, shared care of my 3 kids, other friends, a panoramic range of interests, etc.; I can hardly expect that a new love will m |
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