Tinman: I want a girlfriend, my wife loves the idea..how about you? Moorhead, MN, Minnesota

Looking for a friend with benefits. White male, 5'8”, 145#, Blondish/Brown hair, 30’s, looking for friend & lover who can be involved with me & be comfortable with my marriage. My wife is aware , supportive and will be involved in the selection. There will be times when the three of us spend some kind of social time together. My children live at home. I have a highly variable schedule so timing can include weekdays as well as weekends and evenings. With careful planning overnight and long weekends possible. It is important to me, and I hope to you, that we actually like each other & be friends. You: intelligent, professional & well socialized. emotionally stable. straight. DDF. social drinker Your other interests are similar enough to mine to give a base to grow a friendship/possible relationship. You need to have your own place (no roommates) or live in , physically fit, prefer under 6' (but I’m willing to be open minded) , mid 30's to middle 40's .You are open, sincere, caring both emotionally(romantic) and physically and a playfully sane and imaginative lover. Me: I’m very shy at first meetings but talkative on email, phone and later in person. I am not shy in bed…. I like arts in general, gardens (to visit & grow), walking outside, camping, hiking, horse back riding. I love build race cars and building web graphics. Sorry, I only slow dance. Might be willing to try if willing to teach. I love giving bubble baths and messages, candle light dinners, and being playfull. My taste in music is varied: classical, rock, wide variety of all, etc. I enjoy and believe in having fun. I am a handyman and am good with my hands. I like a woman that knows how to take care of themselves and are somewhat fit.