DarkHumanist: BHM 4 discreet carnal-affair, friendship, XXX, 420,movies,hotels adventure San Diego, CA, California

BHM 4 discreet affair, friendship, XXX, 420, movies,hotels adventure. Yep this is what I wrote and this is what I mean: Friendship is what it's truly about. Somebody different whom I can share my personal thoughts, feelings and opinions with. I'm not married but have been in this monogamous relationship for some 13 years (ergo ... married). My intentions are not to be mean or hurt my significant other, but damnit ... I simply have this NEED this DESIRE to spread my wings a little and feel well ... just feel. Indeed, light / Moderate BDSM from a Dominants position is my "fetish". I'm skilled and enjoy building your orgasim and giving you release over the course of an hour or two. I'm a reasonably honorable man, been the boy scout and cub scout master and even a boy scout back in my day. I really enjoy scifi movies (Star Trek Rules ... that kind of thing) and also have the occasional toke off a joint (420). I'm never hateful or spiteful or cruel to others,it's not my nature. Although ... come to think about the cruel thing ... I do enjoy giving a good spanking and even the occasional Dom and sex slave themed activity is and always will be enjoyable. I live near SDSU in the Oak Park Area about 10 minutes from downtown. I'm a medical professional. True native of San Diego. I've lived in Germany, Japan, Florida, Alabama, Texas, Kentucky and Saudi Arabia (Gulf War Veteran) {your welcome for the lower gas prices in 1992}. How about an affair of the minds, body and spirit. No body will know about us, no marks (well maybe a handprint on your butt & buxom :o) And just like you I'm disease free (not one critter!!!) Oh ... and I had a vasectomy about 8 years ago. I'm hetrosexual but very curios to what it would be like with another man. I'm also curious about submitting to a woman. It is said that a good master is also a good sub. Safe-sain-consenual and of course limits respected. So if you want a good conversation over coffee or long-island ice teas followed by an orgasim ... find me. I work in the HillCrest area.